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09-17-2015, 12:10 PM | #1 |
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How do you avoid people swarming your car when you stop?
When I got into Model A’s I had no idea how attracted people were to these little cars/trucks. I’m a people person so I don’t mind folks swarming the car when I stop and get out… but sometimes it does get old. Mine is a daily driver when the weather allows. I may put close to 10k miles on it by years end. There are times when I’m climbing out of the car and I see people moving in with the regular questions when I duck to the side and make an escape. I did this the other day and left my wife to take the questions and stories. She was rather overwhelmed by it all as I sat back 50 feet undercover and watched in amusement.
Do you ever get tired of the same stories and questions? How do you avoid it without being rude? |
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Re: How do you avoid people swarming your car when you stop?
I'll see people looking at the car when I approach it, and sometimes just hang back and watch to wait for them to walk away.
I enjoy educating people about the vehicle, but sometimes I just want to get in and go.
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Re: How do you avoid people swarming your car when you stop?
Fit Polonium spark plugs to your car then put a sign saying:
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Just sell it and buy yourself an old Vega, no one will bother you!
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Re: How do you avoid people swarming your car when you stop?
People love these old cars, and many of them dream of having one of their own. I am always glad to talk to them about the car, and I am proud they want to look at it. But, when I don't have time to spend with them, I just politely tell them so, and I have never had an issue with that.
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Re: How do you avoid people swarming your car when you stop?
Curly,
You do need to be really careful (especially with your wife around), these little pickups are extremely powerful chick magnets anywhere you stop: gas station, grocery store, etc. When you get tired of the crowd, you can park it at my place and I'll take care of them for you.
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Re: How do you avoid people swarming your car when you stop?
Get used to the fact that there is never a guarantee of a "quick trip" anywhere.
Be glad people are interested enough to speak to you about your old car, even though most of them dont realize that you've heard most of it before...they all think that they just came up with that all on their own. As the song goes " Now you know how Richard Petty feels" |
09-17-2015, 01:42 PM | #10 |
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Re: How do you avoid people swarming your car when you stop?
Smile. Answer the same questions the same way you did 30 minutes ago. Be proud. If you don't like it, buy a Camry. I get it with all my fun cars. The below commandments for Ferrari owners apply to us as well (except for driving on race tracks).
http://mondialt.com/2014/10/16/10-co...car-ownership/
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Re: How do you avoid people swarming your car when you stop?
I can understand the question very well. Found out the answer last Sunday before the parade. Although I was close by, I was at a distance. Had many lookers, old, young but only one question was asked, the horsepower? I didn't mind at all the lookers at all but no one climbed inside or sat on the fenders or rub the hands over the finish. It went well and I had fun. More times too come, I'm sure.
As for being a 'chick' magnate, another reason why she's named Sarah and not Sam, there is only room for one............'chick' magnate!!!!!!!!!!!
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I actually enjoy people asking me about my car. It's fun to share my enthusiasm. But if you don't have the time to chat, just tell the guy, "It's for sale, wanna buy it?" that'll end the conversation.
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I notice anymore, that the teenagers and people in their 20's are the most interested!
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Of course he failed to mention the cowl lights, rear bumpers, trailer hitch, or 16" wires . . .
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I've driven a lot of Shelby Cobra's around and people rarely looked twice at them. Whenever somebody did, it was to tell me about their '67 Mustang in the garage. With the Model A, it's totally different. Everywhere I go I'm asked questions about it. I get questions from all ages, men, women and children. I happened to be driving near an elementary school yesterday as they were letting out. The wife and i answered a ton of questions from the children. I'm happy to answer them, but I'm normally the type of person who likes to sit in the background and blend in with the wall.
These cars really seem to make people smile, and that's not a bad thing to me.
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I get more attention with my 29 Model A huckster than I do with my 29 std coupe. It seems people that are woodworkers admire the wood in the body. Young kids have to take pictures with their cell phones. And many other questions about this Model A body that is not a Model A body but is different enough that people have to find out more info about it.
I don't mind the questions because it gives me the opportunity to explain why I kept the old pile of junk for over 50 years and then rebuilt it into the huckster. When they ask how old it is, and I get that question often, I tell them it is older than I am and that is OLD!
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Re: How do you avoid people swarming your car when you stop?
most Model A people encourage and enjoy people wanting to ask questions. It is in my opinion unrealistic to expect people not to want to enjoy your A. I must admit that in 40 years this is the first time I have ever heard this question asked???? Wayne
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I've always enjoyed answering questions, except for one. For whatever reason 3 out of 5 people that stop me as I'm getting in or out of the car ask "how much is it worth." That is tiresome. I finally started answering "probably a lot less than you think."
My biggest concern is not the people who hover over the car and ask questions when I'm stopped, but rather the drivers around me who are pointing and/or trying to take pictures instead of paying attention to their driving. I'd hate to inadvertently cause an accident because my car distracted someone. |
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I like engaging the poeple who want to talk about my old car. But then, I usually talk so much that peoples' ears begin to bleed...
Promote, promote, promote... that's my mantra.
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My favorite question is did you drive it here ? ( no I pushed it ) and what year is it ? I tell them it's 2015 ! Ha but I love talking about bouncing Betty !! It always draws a crowd .
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Only occasionally will anybody give either of my As a second look. I can leave it in the car park at the shopping centre and people walk by seemingly without noticing. When they do, it's often recent immigrants from either Asia or the Middle East where they have nothing like them. When somebody does stop, I get the same questions mentions above. My answer to "How fast does it go?", I truthfully answer "I don't know" or "Fast enough to get a speeding ticket". They can't comprehend that I haven't tried it out.
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Most times I really enjoy the chat even though you do hear the same questions over and over again. On the rare occasion when I'm not up for a chat I just say sorry, I must go, my wife just called me and said that the baby is about to arrive and I need to get her to the hospital. Works every time. They congratulate me (I'm 64) and wish me all best.
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Old Ladies (our cars) like the attention, we're just their caretakers for now...
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i dunno i have a Chevette and get asked about it or told a quick story about one someone used to have, usually humorous. fun car to take to a dealership, older salesmen are like bees on honey around it!
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I drive my coupe to deliver Meals-On-Wheels. Those folks really appreciate her and love to reminisce!
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I hear the story....it was something this.....an "A" owner, about 60 years old, drove to the store in his restored tudor and of course people started to ask questions and view the car. One person was really excited and loved the Model A......asked the guy did you buy this car new ?
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Actually, I feel proud that I put so much hard work into building it, it made somebody happy enough to strike up a conversation with a stranger. To me that makes me happy. And I feel Blessed that I'm fortunate enough to have the vehicle to begin with. The only 2 ones that bother me are the guys who start asking financial questions. "How much did you pay" " how much is it worth" "how much have you spent on it". Asking about my personal finances is pretty rude and very common for me unfortunately. The other is the guy who feels the need to list his vast collection of valuable cars that he once had but no longer does for whatever reason. I never know what to say to that. Like, aww... Sorry you don't have them anymore but you can watch me drive mine. Awkward.
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When we brought the ccpu home on a trailer we stopped at a local farm supply store to buy tape for the windows...when we came out there were folks all around the old pickup....I think when you see one on a trailer you may think it's been "rescued" from some horrible fate...we got lots of questions and stories of childhood Model A experiences....
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I have a standard answer as to how much I have in the car and I have used it since I first started racing in high school.
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When asked "How much is it worth?" I ask them what they think, then I ask them if they want to buy it. That usually gets a laff. But you shouldn't own or drive a Model A if you're going to be a pissant about it. These cars make people smile, and afford an opportunity to engage folks in a friendly conversation in an increasingly inhospitable society. I don't care about a person's color, age, style, or anything else. If they want to talk about my car I can afford 15 minutes to help them have a nice day. I have never, and I mean never, in over 50 years, had an unpleasant conversation with someone about my car. I would rather they got home and told a story about a pleasant moment in their day than relating a story about an old crank who was rude to them.
And on top of that, being nice to people has led me to some interesting finds and good leads.
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I think about the GREAT FRIENDS I've made, that wouldn't have happened, were it NOT FOR THE CAR!!!
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My father in law always uses a varaition of that line. He loves the attention the car brings and when we go in a store he proudly sits in the car at the store front door. There is hardly a time that he is not asked " had her long "? And he proudly replies " bought her new " ! Wayne
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Just wear a non-smiling Lois Lerner IRS mask. But seriously, in my area, it is always young people asking. Most of what I learned in life was learned by wonderful people taking the time to answer my extremely detailed questions. I feel very comfortable among younger folks asking all types of questions and I know my efforts to answer are appreciated by them. If their interruption takes too long, just kindly explain that you are busy .... they always appear to appreciate and respect candid responses. |
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I worry about the diminishing numbers of young people who will be needed to be the 'care-takers' of our Model A's as the older of us begin to 'fade away'.
So with that in mind, whenever I have the opportunity, I ask any on-lookers who seem to have an interest, if they have any young people in their family who would like to learn more, and perhaps to go for a ride. This is my version of a 'recruitment' program for future owners. As a former teacher, I feel that an 'inter-active, Living-History' approach lends for better attention by the student, and perhaps plant a seed of interest that will carry on into adulthood. So I look forward to the opportunity that is presented when I find ". . . people swarming . . . " around my '28 Phaeton . - Doug Vieyra, Eureka, Calif |
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Contrary to the posters desire I think a very high percentage of our group encourage lookers, gawkers and swarmers. It is part of who we are in this hobby! Wayne
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I find it amusing that I get more attention at the local gas station than at the car shows!
But last night was absolutely the best. Was at a car show answering the usual questions. A lady walked up with the help of a cane - she looked like she was easily over 100 - she could not talk well, she tried but could not say what she wanted too - she merely pointed at the car and cried. Then with a smile and a whispered "thank you" she left. That was the absolute best time I had showing off the car. |
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Funny but in Southern Orygun people don't look twice at Model A's. There are a lot of hot rods out here.
OTOH, when I take the Model T out people drive by and take video and snap pictures. Getting gas is a mob scene. How does it run w/o leaded gas, do you have to use premium.......why are you taking the seat out? They don't make em like that anymore!
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Ok, so mine is a 55CV, not an "A" but I LOVE ALL the questions I get wherever I go in Diana. I am with most of you here, it's about the younger gen. I let kids and young adults, (sometimes older dolls as well) sit inside behind the wheel. They have NEVER seen a steering wheel as big mine in a car before! I have had people ask if I took it out of a bus?!? No matter, she's my baby and I love being her caretaker! Ask ALL the questions you want!
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The Wife and I never seem to have a problem with people coming up to talk about the car, just don't understand it.
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Seriously though, I welcome people to talk, touch, ask about the car, I especially encourage the little kids, I ask if they want to sit behind the wheel, which they love, have them grab that big ole steering wheel and pretend they're driving, I like to tell them to push that black button in the middle of it, that smile and big bright eyes are memories they will keep for years to come. They really love that horn.
Hoping it starts a love affair for them, so that they will carry the Model A into the future, after we have gone.
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I don't mind answering questions about the Model A and even listening to the constant stories about the Model As they used to have. Even though I am an Aspergers Syndrome guy, I just put on the happy face and act happy to do it. I let people get in and take pictures, and I offer rides. Most people are surprised to see a young guy driving a car so old.
What I do NOT like is the frequent approaches from douchebag looking slobs that don't even say "Hi", only saying to me, " What's it worth?" I only respond with, "It's not for sale". No matter how they re-word their question, I just keep reciting " not for sale" and watch them get all mad. I blame this uncivil behavior on the glut of 'reality' TV shows that are all about flipping old cars for profit. |
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Sometimes I point to the wife and say its hers. Our 8 year old daughter loves the truck and will carry on about how much she loves it. I run into a old guy whos family had a dealership back in the day, he told me a story how they would run the Model A up to Yellowstone from our location in Utah.
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Glad to hear I'm not the only one who lets the wife field the questions. I reckon it gives her a hobby.
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Switch to restoring antique refrigerators. This way, no one ever gets to see your hard work because it's stuck in the kitchen! Sorry, I started realizing this when bringing home another unit to restore and a guy driving a model B saw it in the back of the truck and we started talking about it. Kinda depressed me actually. |
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I think people who ask 'how much' don't care about your personal finances, they are just curious. I usually give them a range of two or three thousand in the ballpark and they are satisfied. And it might give them the idea that maybe they could afford one and then another Model A is saved from the street rodders.... for awhile....
When we go down the street EVERYBODY stops what they are doing and looks and smiles, no matter what their age. They ask for the horn so their kids can hear it. If the situation is right I let them sit inside and may even give them a ride. And they DON'T CARE if it is a 500 point car or just an 85 year old one. I hope I am around long enough to tell them when it is a 100 year old car! When I get out of the car I am usually in a good mood. A really good mood. Life is good. |
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I was once looking for a 10+ year old Explorer. Saw one with a sign on it, wrote the number down and called a couple days later when I had the chance. "Sorry, it has already been sold." came the reply.
Continued looking, found one in the newspaper a week or so later. Went to look at it. Same @#$@ car as I had looked at the week before. Different seller this time. He owned it a week, probably gave it a good cleaning and "flipped" it for $800 profit. Yes, I bought it. Was still a good deal, just not as good a deal if I had not procrastinated calling in the first place. That's my "flip" story, and I'm sticking to it!
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I have many people ask me if they can take a picture of whichever car I'm driving that day. I love to tell them that I can't allow that, but if they would sit in the driver's seat I would be happy to take their picture. Most people can't believe that I would let them get in the car. I tell them that the majority of the fun in owning it is sharing it with others,
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5 rotten onions and a dead possum in a flax or cheesecloth bag. Tie under the muffler with some wire. Keeps everyone except the determined and very curious away.
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I never had that happen. I have a 30 roadster and recently had a 31 roadster and people honk and wave or say nice car but that is rare. Never been swarmed and I live in Holden Ma
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For me there is only one reason to cut people short and leave the area and that is because i'm on the way to a show. I then invite them to come on by and/or give them the clubs business card.
In the years that I have owned my car I have never gotten "tired" of answering questions.
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First question they ask is "what years is it". I have had the A for many years and still enjoy the response I receive from the people and all the thumbs up, had an old coupe once standing by the rumble seat and I overheard them saying and laughing about what they did in that seat on there A.....
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Buy A Chev. Always interest in Model A's. When I'm working on my car with the garage door open people will stop by and what to see what's going on. Ask questions and have a good day. There's just something about these cars.
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I would put forth that anytime you're driving your old car in public, you're advertising for the hobby. We have much the same thing with the antique steam traction engine hobby-I can't count how many times I've answered "how old is it" or "what does it run on"? That said although they may seem to be dumb or repetitive questions to us, the person who is asking probably doesn't know! Put on a smile, and answer politely-you're the face of the the hobby for that person at that moment
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Very beautiful cars Mitch, to nice to leave in the driveway.
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Many years ago I had just restored a really nice early serial number 1969 boss 429. Had gone to the first (car show) to show it off. While I had taken a quick men's room stop when I came back a whole family was sitting in the car had a baby sitting on the roof with a dirty diaper and were smoking a long cigar while enjoying the beautiful car. I Iwas just about to go ballistic and my next door show neighbor pulled me aside and made a fine statement. Before you blow up remember it's just a car it will eventually get a scratch or a ding and it will not always be perfect, in reality it never was to start with. . So I took a deep breath and went over to the family and just Asked what did they think about my car. The man said it brought back many memories of his before it was rear ended, and he would never have enough money to put into the shape mine was in,and if I would have blown up I am sure he would not have asked me if I would like to have what was left of his car for spare parts. I was totally blown away, I went to his house later that evening and sure enough there was another 69 boss 429 complete with a wicked rear end hit that had been parked since 1971 .i tried to pay him for the remains but he would not hear of it. He saw the begining pictures of what I started with and wanted me to do whatever I chose to do with the balance of his car. 2 years later and a whole lot of money and time it was finished and came out very nice. So the moral of the story is yes that are some who just look touch and maybe irritate you when you park your car but sometimes the folks you are meeting for the first time may help you in ways you could not have imagined. I never got upset anymore after that day and saw the lookers and touches as a benefit and never a problem"
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A day or so ago I needeed to grocery shop, it was a nice day and I took the Model A, The store is 18 miles each way I had the best time and the parking lot was full of compliments, my way out of the conversations was My Ice Cream is going to melt all over the rumble seatand it takes me a little longer to get home in this car. Most everyone thought it was funny. It was the best shopping trip I have been on in a long time.
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Thanks Keith
for now i am putting them both through the paces at national meets, so i need to keep them pristine... i need a driver pick up truck to fart around in ASAP.. a roadster preferably but i know the leg room will kill me. i have 6" adjusters in my tudors.... cant win HUH Last edited by Mitch//pa; 09-21-2015 at 06:23 AM. |
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I enjoy having people ask about my cars. I have never regretted having them ask. I am a "question" person myself and I admire people who want to learn about their world.
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As long as you keep it at home, only your wife will ask those questions!
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...and What is the MILES PER GALLON ?
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Top 10 questions I get asked (in no particular order)
1. How much did you pay for it? 2. Did you buy it new? 3. Did you restore it yourself? 4. What mileage do you get? 5. How fast will it go? 6. How long have you had it? 7. Can I take a picture? 8. Is it all original? 9. What year is your Model T? 10. What is the horsepower? I answer these and others very willingly. Although it gets a little tiring when at a show, and there is a placard in the window answering most of these questions.
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[QUOTE=CarlG;1160072]Top 10 questions I get asked (in no particular order)
1. How much did you pay for it? 2. Did you buy it new? 3. Did you restore it yourself? 4. What mileage do you get? 5. How fast will it go? 6. How long have you had it? 7. Can I take a picture? 8. Is it all original? 9. What year is your Model T? 10. What is the horsepower? I answer these and others very willingly. Although it gets a little tiring when at a show, and there is a placard in the window answering most of these questions. [/QUOTE] All of these are the kind of questions asked by people who know nothing and are curious. No matter if it is a car show or a gem & mineral show. Like most of the people attending shows. Isn't that one of the big reasons why we have shows, for other people? Sure, they can read all about it but it is much more fun for them if they can actually talk to the guy who owns one. I expect the questions and have actually initiated the conversation myself when I see a family walking by and they appear to want to ask a question but are timid. Maybe being 'bothered' when stopping at a store is a different situation but the reasons are the same. |
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To keep people away you can either tie a dead skunk to the rear bumper, or give the engine half throttle, then turn the key off, and back on just before it stops. The loud explosion will make people think it's a drive by shooting and they'll all run for cover.
I've never minded answering what I paid for the car or what it's worth. A year ago I had my 1950 Studebaker in South Bend and was asked what it's worth. I told the man I thought it was worth about $12,000. He said "oh no, it's worth a lot more than that, more like $100,000." Sure wish he had the money to buy it. |
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...and I often get "Do you drive it?" and they are amazed when I tell them I have driven it to New Jersey, CT, and Mass. from Long Island. I always wonder how they figure it got to where it is parked?
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Yes, driving Larry's car. You going? This is our annual "Fall Colors" Tour. 250 miles round trip (from Anchorage), add another 120 from your place.
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Some people have special gifts for handling the same questions several times a day, year after year: my wife with thirty-five years of teaching, and each kid thinks he or she is asking the question for the first time, or the attitude of students and parents to be constantly dealt with. I think of waitresses, car hops, bar maids, convenience store girls and bank tellers. They treat every hit or every attempt at humor, who knows how many times a day, as genuinely clever, generally with grace, and go about their day. I couldn't do it. (another reason I'm glad I'm not a girl). I try to learn from them and, most of the time, make anyone who approaches me feel good about themselves, though touching my car or attempting to get in it can immediately push me beyond my characteristic kindliness. The same for putting a foot on the running board or bumper. I also keep my friends and relatives as friends by not letting them touch or ride in my cars.
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