[old car guy]

Dear Jeery I can imagine the emotional toil that’s going on with you and the missus . What can any of us unaffected do to help you?
It’s un believable how quick ones life can change and go into the toilet so quickly. One advantage to starting over is you have made the big purge and will be mindful in the future about the amount of things that you replace the items lost. I know the wife and I have been there also not by fire though.
God speed and continue to stay safe