Depending on how much the paint shines up, you should be able to paint the fenders black to match. If you get a somewhat flat shine to your paint, you should be able to paint the fenders semi-gloss black and then wax the whole truck. For a completely flat shine, paint the fenders flat black and wax the whole truck.
For lights I highly recommend the 6 volt halogen bulbs that
lbcarco sells for your truck. I have their bulbs in my 37 and really like them.